How do you respond when you feel unsafe? When you have exposed your weakness in an effort to be authentic, only to get a swift kick in the gut as a “thank you”.
I can tell you what my immediate reflex is. Shut down mode. Walls up. Armor on.
How do you remain open and real in the midst of betrayal? How do you continue to fully show up and engage when you have been hurt and disappointed? How do you find a path forward with someone who may never own up to the harm they’ve caused? Continue reading “Lessons from the Pain”
Pain is always telling us something if we’re listening. Lately, the blister I developed on my left pinky toe was telling me I needed to invest in a new pair of shoes.
The problem with pain is you have to feel it in order to hear what it’s telling you. Ignoring it won’t work, numbing it only lasts momentarily and running from it is awfully tiring. Continue reading “What is Your Pain Telling You?”
Self reflection can be tiring, but I would assume fairly essential to recognizing what in life may need changed. So this is the question I’ve been chewing on lately. Do I turn to the right “things” when life is hard? When I’m overwhelmed? When I’m ______ (you can fill in the blank).
More importantly, I have been examining what my initial reactions are…what’s my default position when the going get’s tough? Who or what do I turn to when I need comfort? Continue reading “What Does Your Pain Drive You To?”
My Pastor made this statement in a recent Sunday sermon, “Gods agenda is not for you to be happy and comfortable. It’s for you to be Godly.” That statement did not tickle my ears, but I recognized it as truth, truth that I need to embrace.
This is the thing, I like comfort A LOT. I like stretchy pants, a warm cup of coffee in my hand, perhaps someone to entertain me, kicked back in my easy chair. I mean who doesn’t, right? Yet, if comfort is not God’s priority then I’m thinkin’, it probably shouldn’t be mine. Continue reading “Painful But True,Your Comfort Is Not God’s Priority”